Fantastic! Today was an Amazing Day! Apart from it Being MY BABY BROTHERS BIRTHDAY- I had an AMAZING session with my group patients. Well okay so I lied a little.... it wasn't amazing...it was BLOW OUT CRAZY AMAZINGLY FANTASTIC!!! Today two of my patients had gone to the dentist, so we only had 5 opposed to our usual 7 (inc. our new patient Kulwant Kaur!) We did our usual... the group seemed a bit tired...especially since it was so sunny out today- we were peeling our shawls off! Farida kept singing to herself so I had to ask her to leave, but she wouldn't leave- and finally opened up. She started to cry and say " I WANT TO GO HOME!! I want to see my child and I just want to go home! Take me HOME!" i was able to understand this, but the problem is, HOW CAN WE SEND HER HOME??? When she arrived at Pingalwara she was beat up, all bashed up, head wounds, and tortured- BY HER HUSBAND! so how in the world do you send her home? She really is not fit to go home- SADLY!
Later they were all sent to their wards, and I kept behind Kulwant (New Pt), and Satnam. These are my two patients with the most comprehension. Kulwant as explained in one of my previous blogs was a Lawyer, and Satnam is a well educated woman. I really wanted to trigger friendship amongst them, so they have a companion throughout the day.
The three of us started to talk, and were able to understand where Kulwants Paranoia comes from. Kulwant is Paranoid of any MALE figure. She explained how her body is still pure, with the grace and protection of Guru Ram Das Ji, and that she has been molested many times but her colleagues. We were finally able to understand through her stories of where this all triggered, and how it continued throughout her life.
THE WOMAN NEEDED TREATMENT ALL THROUGHOUT HER LIFE- IF IF IF IF IF IF IF IF IF IF IF she had some treatment early on, this woman could have been a phenomenal Lawyer!!!! (Kulwant has met with Indira Gandhi 3 times and worked with her!) I MEAN COME ON!!!!!
This reallllllly makes me mad! This poor woman is all ALONE!!!!
I am becoming very very very GOD FEARING....
Satnam was able to talk to her, and understand her.
Towards the end, I was able to see a New Friendship in the makings!!
GOD BLESS!
2 comments:
hmmm.. funtabulos :)
Hey...
I couldn't help but outcry over the pains suffered by these poor women. And then the following quote came to mind "Safal murat safla ghari jit sache naal piyaar. Dukh santaap na lagge jis har ka naam adhaar. Bah pakar kadeya gur soi uttrae par."
Basically its means that when one is in love with God that time is fruitful. Suffering and sorrow do not touch those who have support of the Lords Name. Grasping him by the arm the Guru lifts them out of their pain and carries them to the other side.
I wonder that if sometimes when we lose touch with God that sufferings seems more painful? Do you guys have meditation classes where you can teach these souls to focus on God name and get peace? You're the expert :) and I'm sure the people at Pingalwara know best.
But hey if you are ever down depressed etc. try listening to these simrans... they have a soothing effect. -Prince
http://www.mrsikhnet.com/mp3player/western%20-%20non%20traditional/snatam%20kaur/snatam%20kaur%20-%20waheguru%203.mp3
http://www.mrsikhnet.com/mp3/sat%20shabad%20singh%20-%20wahe%20guru%20-%2011min.mp3
http://media.panthic.net/Raagi_Keertan/Bibi_Baljit_Kaur_Khalsa/Aaise_Gur_Kao_Bal_Bal_Jaiye/mp3/Bibi_Baljit_Kaur_Khalsa_-_Waheguru_Waheguru_Waheguru.mp3
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